screening

I'm sure you're great; respectful. honest, and just looking for a great time with an awesome chick.

But face it, this hobby is full of scammers, cheats, abusive guys, and even members of law enforcement who confuse companionship with prostitution.

I don't take meeting a new friend for the first time lightly, and neither should you.

Screening should say to you, "Visiting her is safe, she doesn't just invite any one over."

It also helps me keep time wasters away so I'll be in a better mood when we finally do meet.

Don't make it something you try to avoid, game, or get around.

I don't want to marry you either.

Lol

If you're not cool with it, that's OK.

It just means we won't get a chance to meet you.

What I need is two verifiable things.

Or at least one that absolutely verifies the other.

For example, your LinkedIn.

But anyone could send me your LinkedIn.

How do I know it's you?

I know that not everyone's situation is the same and what might work for one may not work for another.

But usually, any two things from this list usually work.

Sometimes three.

Just ask yourself, is she able to verify what I'm giving her is actually me"

- Do you have a LinkedIn profile with a recent photo.

- Professional email

- Is there a photo of you on a company or organization website someplace.

- I could give you a discrete call at work and ask for you by name.

- Contacting me from a phone number and email that reverse searches back to you.

- Facebook? You might have temporarily adjust your privacy settings though.

- References from other girls you've met. But they have to active and verifiable.

- A screenshot of your DL with your address blocked out and a selfie of you holding it.

- Something similar.